JustThink#98 

Sometimes I feel, they understand and sometimes I feel, they never did!


Boys...who really can feel what boys really feel and have to go through what...
Sometimes I fee, only a boy can understand the pain of a boy who is getting crushed by responsibilities, expectations and having understanding with acceptance of all other genders...
Only boys can empathize with other boys, the things which they have to let go and things which they have to deal it with no choice...
BUT
Sometimes I feel, they dont really feel it...why?
Boys dont really get emotional in front of another boy...often times, I have seen boys are sad, frustated, stressed and the moment they get to express in front of any other boy, we decide to be alone
We decide to deal with it ourselves
We decide that its our problem so there is no benefit in sharing or expressing your feelings in front of a boy...
At the end, we got no one but girls who can listen and understand us
BUT AGAIN!
Sometimes, I feel girls do empathize a lot...its by nature only girls are tend to be a good listener and emotional person who will be there to help you and support you...
A lot of time, boys get calm down becoz of girls who knows him very well...understands him and support him to get chill
BUT
Sometimes, I feel, at the end....girls can't really empathize what boys are going through...somewhere its a fact, that girls do have some bigger issues to deal with as a girl whether its about being alert all the time from unexpected stare and disguisting behaviour from few boys or its about dealing with society norms as well as handling the pain of periods...
I feel, subconsciously girls cant really empathize becoz they have a lot of problems to deal with it...I know I should not really compare both of their problems but being practical here...girls do have a lot of issues,,,

So thats why, I feel even girls are more empthatetic in nature still they can't really feel what boys are going through and what mental burden they are carrying all the time...

And therefore...Sometimes I feel, they understand and sometimes I feel, they never did! (For boys as well as girls)