JustThink#90

Is our generation getting intolerant?

I often hear from my parents that this upcoming generation is so intolerant to every difficult situation rather than facing it...
That our generation finds it draining to face any kind of problem when it comes to their mental state as we always look for convenience in terms of mental health...

Here I understand why they are saying this as our parents generation(people born in 1970s) had faced so many problems physically and mentally but now at our time, we don't do that as the main problem of every generation is mostly MONEY and our generation luckily got so many opportunities to earn at home only without moving much 

BUT
Also, I feel they are wrong when they say that its okay to have pressure on your mental state as its not as intense as they used to have in their time
They think its fine to scold their children or even throw their anger and stress on your children (not intentionally) as it was normal in their time
For them, just because we don't opt for taking unnecessary pressure on mental state and looking for convenience if its an option is just us being intolerant to the problems...

I was thinking like this until I face the other side of this situation which is watching youngsters being so sensitive whenever it comes to facing problems related to relationships or any kind of relation 
I have been in a situation where I do whatever this person wants just because they were having bad time but the moment, I expect the same, they are like, I am pressuring them with my problems
I find it so bad that some people have so many options or people around them who cares for them in a difficult situation but the moment, someone needs them, they are like...I will care but the way I want 

I mean why would I want to be cared the way they are comfortable in, I want to loved and cared the way I need or I want...
They point out things that triggers them and I try to be conscious about it to not repeat but at the same time, they keep doing things that triggers me all the time and says, its the way they like to care 

What's the point of me adjusting and accepting them if they don't do the same for me 

Somewhere I get my parents perspective on why they feel this generation is getting intolerant day by day...ofcourse I still don't agree with them on mental health thing but yes, I understand why they feel like this...

Here I feel, no one is right or wrong, it just the way everyone is dealing...I tend to do things which works for me and same goes with others...sometimes both of our way don't align with each other and unfortunately, the only option you find is to get apart from each other...and be with people whose way of understanding and dealing is similar to yours...

It will hurt but that's the price you have to pay....I mean, You always have to pay price for convenience na