JustThink#89  

You must have heard of creative husbands who keep surprising their wives with more and more creative gifts, actions and efforts

Not only husbands, but we do know at least person in our life who is so creative and thoughtful towards the person they love the most

It might be some celebrity, your neighbour, your colleague or maybe a mutual friend but yes, we do know them

Likewise, once there was a boy, very creative with his imagination of making people happy with his sweet thoughtful letter writings, imperfect drawings, video creation using intense storytelling or any creative words at right moment whatever it is, he always loved to do these things for his loved ones...ALWAYS

It was his habit now, he cant stop himself from it, its a part of the personality now

BUT

With the time, he started noticing this fact that he is the only one who is putting the effort in this beautiful ways of loving but in response, rarely his loved used to create something for him...

It was not that they don't put any effort, they do love him but they don't love the way boy wants...as they is a saying, 

"Love a person the way they need to be loved, not the way you want to love. It's not about you. Love is selfless, not selfish." - Tony Gaskins 

And yes, he started expecting the same or at least similar efforts from his loved ones which was a natural feeling when you put so much energy and effort and love like usually parents does for their kid and expect the similar kind of effort from the child when he/she is grown

You know what, this is actually unfortunate because you cant really make someone to love the way you want, its like changing someone for your wishes

But the boy did, he tried to put more and more efforts in it and even confronted his loved ones to do the same 

Still, you cant change their personality, people rarely change themselves for anyone, in some cases, not even parents can change themself for their kid

The boy got into hundreds of arguments with his own loved ones because nothing was happening according to him, no one was loving him the way he felt, he deserved

He shouted I DESERVE THIS! Still, how long you can do try to change someone...with the time his creative side started deteriorating as his mind was being very distracted all the time

With the frustration he was having, one fine day he got a letter at his door, wondering who could have send this as he got a letter from anyone for the very first time in his life

Letter was filled with pure love and positive affirmation about him and how the person who had sent this respect and love his effort and that's why that person decided to do what the boy loved...

It was already started with a letter followed by an invitation to a cafe and when he reached there, he found a warm welcome in the beautiful evening song with nothing but pav bhaji 

That person knew that the boy loved pav bhaji so much...emotions started flowing through his mind with tears of happiness

He kept asking who made these arrangements but no one knew about that person as person has managed to do everything on calls and chats

Next was something, the boy has ever imagined in his life...

He got invitation from theatre screening his own life story and also, the fact that his creative letter writings, stories, gifts, videos got viral on internet and he didn't have any idea that he is not alone in the theatre

He is a celebrity now whom people came to watch and listen the boy's creative side story

This screening consisted a short film narrating the story of that boy and his creative efforts for his loved ones

The more film came to an end the more audience got emotional and at the final scene, audience got up and started clapping for him with Bollywood music in the background 

Boy cried and felt motivated that someone in this world has loved him so much and loved him the way he always wanted...he got what he deserved...

WAIT!

You do wanna know who was that person na...

We know one person in our life who can do research on your life to get all your secrets without even you knowing about it, it might be your sister, your best friend, your fan or your parents sometimes...

In our boy's case, his sister was the one to be that researcher to find who was that person who made his dear brother so happy....

It took days to find any lead as the person was smart enough to not keep any records BUT

Story is continuing that simply means she found out the person

A simple bill of pav bhaji which she managed to get from the restaurant and she was shocked!

And emotional at the same time...she cried, took a little break and confronted his brother

BECAUSE

The person was none other than the boy HIMSELF!

YES, the boy was the one who planned everything from letter to pav bhaji to calling people who loved his creative side to short film

Everything was done by the boy...

WHY?

When he was frustrated about himself for not getting love the way he wants...he was listening to a song and walked over a mile and realised....

He didn't need to change anyone else to love him the way he wants as its not even possible unless he is lucky to have someone with natural tendency to love him that way

He realised, why anybody else but not me...

I am the only one who knows himself so well and knows how he wanted to be loved...then why he cant do that for himself like being a hero in his own story

He realised, he don't need someone else to do things for him as he can be the one who love himself the most in this world

He got what he deserved not from others but from himself!