JustThink#70 



There are things/situations in life which you CAN change if you have the courage to change it…

AND

There are things/situations in life which you CAN’T change…no matter what you you do OR what you want…You just can’t…

AND

There are some people’s mindset which is never gonna change…

People who think they are ALWAYS right…

People who think they are the one’s who ALWAYS suffer…

People who think they have to fight/argue to prove themself right…

People who constantly remind you about your mistakes, not to help you but to hurt you more and to prove their point right…

People who take action emotionally and never take rational decisions at alll…

People who are toxic as hell but they never really accept the fact…

People who feel if they take you down then only you will listen to them…

People who just need validation and for that, they forget the difference between talking and fighting/arguing…

People who plays victim card at the end just to show their suffering without knowing the suffering of people around them…

People who shows that they are forcing/hurting/manupulating/dominating just because they “LOVE” you and they know whats good for you…

You know whats worse point about these people…

The fact that they can be ANYONE in your life…

Your collegue…your boss…your neighbour…your college friend…your teacher…

AND EVEN

Your closest friend…your sibling…your father…your mother…your partner….

Literally ANYONE…

What is the one thing common in these type of people….they never really accept who they are as they are also HUMANS…

YESS, Human beings…living body who can think, and act according to it and can make dozens of mistakes without even knowing the impact of it on their closed ones…

Usually, people run away from these people for obvious reasons..

BUT

WHAT IF..?

You don’t even have the option to RUN…

WHAT IF..?

You CAN’T change this situation because its not in your hand…

WHAT IF..?

You have the only option which is to SUFFER…

I know, that would be the worst situation ever anyone would want to be in…

YOu know, What I thought observing this kinda people…

I Feel SAD!

I feel SAD, that they are in a loop of toxicity where they don’t even know how to come out from it…

I feel SAD, that they don’t know if they aren’t going to work on themself then it will going to cost a hell in long term…

I feel SAD, that they are not even aware of their mindset and the impact they cause on others around them…

I feel SAD, that even if someone tries to help them…then they get dependent on them and unintentionally possibly can harm them…

I feel SAD, that the only person who can help them to get better are THEMSELVES…and no one else…

I feel SAD, that YOU can help them to increase their rationality but only till some extent…till they are ready to change…

I feel SAD, they are ruining relationships around them who can possibly be a potential victim in future grew under their influence…

I feel SAD, that they always overthink everything as it became a habit of their nature…

I feel SAD, whenever I observe their behaviour where their brains are now trained to not think rationally and act emotionally ALWAYS…

AND

I feel SAD, for the people who are always there around them….not because they want to BUT because they don’t have any option to RUN away…to LEAVE them…to choose the option of NOT suffering….

I have only this option…which is to feel SAD…

You can NEVER help anyone who don’t want to HELP themselves…