JustThink#123

15th May,2024...10:53pm


Khudke saath akele khusi se rehna bohot muskil hota hai,

Haa par uui ek baar sikhliye, fir koi tumko takleef nahi pahucha sakta!

                              -- Dadi, Laapataa Ladies

Itna pyaara laga na dadi se ye sunke...abhi tak sirf aadhi movie dekhi hai and it gives you so much of comfy...

Ye line jo mene mention ki hai is about self love and being fulfilled with yourself without depending on anyone else...abh ye koi nayi baat nahi hai, its not something unique jo kabhi motivation ya self love vale reels mai dekha na ho

What I loved about the line is the way dadi said it...in her own language with that little small village accent jo sunne mai bilkul ghar jesa sunai deta hai

Lockdown mai ek time mai I was soooo into self help book and motivation stuff where I just wasted my whole time just being motivated and living in my delusions...imaginations...and No Action at all.

Because of that, at one point I just lost interest in any kind of motivation or that being positive all the time attitute...I was so fed up feeling like I am lying to myself all the time

I gave up after a loooong time wasting my energy...Its not that these are lies

Ofcourse you should love yourself, you should have a positive look and change is constant kind of quotes...all are true 

My issue is that its tooo westernized way of healing...ghar ka nahi lagta

Lagta h bas kuch rati hui lines hai to be positive, accept reality etc etc

Like when i was watching friends, its preety common to say"I am so sorry" when  you hear sad news from closed one

But india mai, I never saw people saying, I am sorry you failed the exam, I am sorry you got hurt, I am so sorry you lost it, I am here for you etc etc bohot fake feel hota hai for some reason

Lekin movie dekhte vaqt, jab dadi ne ek scene mai phool se baat krte hue ye line boli, it felt so real...ghar vali feeling ki haa, aise samjhaya jaata hai about life

This is how you should accept reality!

I am not against that whole positive affirmations, self love, motivation thing of internet bas, I want something more grounded in my environment

Thoda connect feel karu and face karu ki reality of life kya hai?

Although I do try to follow positive affirmation thing again sometime, but hota hi nahi yrr kuch, maybe i am just too practical about it

Koi dadi jesa motivate karo...or actually not motivate, but dadi jese reality dekhao samne rather lying all the time that everything is going to be just okay!

Jab tak dadi jese na mile koi tab tak experiences se hi feel lete rahege about reality of life...

Hogaya aajka deep thought stufff...now back to my work,

Finally one more script is done aur kal video edit krke khatam karni hai...garmi firse aagayi uffff bas 15 din aur fir baarish mai kamre mai bethe hue kaam karne mai maja aayega...Good Night.