JustThink#102

8th July,2023..07:38 pm

Sometimes, its your reality and not your negativity towards life...
We often hear this on social media or from our dearest ones, "Be positive" "You are just seeing the negative side of your life" "You should appreciate little things in life" "Be grateful that you are alive"...You know what I think, death is much better than suffering while being alive...You agree with me or not, I dont care

I agree, that you should have a positive outlook on your life and give positive vibes to people around you and sometimes, when life hit you hard, your positive attitude is sometimes enough to give you energy to deal with the situation
BUT
Sometimes, its life does not just hit you...it tries to kill you slowly slowly with numerous amount of problems which you never thought of dealing with...

This is not you are focusing on some negative side of the situation, its the reality...
The reality of life which is UNFAIR which is COMPLICATED which is SUFFERING...
Although I am on side of people who still have this positive outlook on life so that you have less expectations and more happiness with whatever you are dealing with...

The TRUTH is, REALITY is COMPLICATED and sometimes in life, this complication start eating you from inside where you can see, how every relation, every career decision and health decisions are just going against you..

WHY?
Because you had have made some mistakes in past and you have some situations in life which is not in your control at all...
Now what is the solution here?

Simple...work on your mistakes and improve on what you can control...
Accept what you cannot control in life...or learn how to deal with it

Then what is the issue here? We have a solution right?
Yes, but what if, whatever issues/problems/negativity you are facing in life is in ratio of 10% your mistakes/in your control and 90% not in your control

So, basically you have to accept what you dont like which is 90% of your life and learn how to deal with it whether its related to relations,career or health issues

Now here, I am not being negative...I am being realistic...I am seeing the reality which is the TRUTH that I am unlucky to be in this kind of life where I have no control and no confidence in myself...

I am not being negative here...its the reality which I hate and lost interest in dealing with it
Thats why I sometimes feel...
Sometimes, its your reality and not your negativity towards life...