JustThink...nBlog #8

                                                                     


Relation between friends which we called FRIENDSHIP, relation between you and your partner which is RELATIONSHIP or your relation between your parents and you...

This relations are the connections between you and your surroundings...

AND

It really affects you mentally and emotionally...

It is very important that you should know how to balance all relations at a time, how to make bond stronger than previous in a long run...how to expect less and give more in relation...

I saw many people who are just stucked in their mind or I say in their overthinking habit that they just made up things(or you say "Rai ka Pahad Banana" in hindi)...

There are number of reasons, I think in my OPINION are the cause of bad relations without any big conflicts...

FIRST is PERSPECTIVE...

                                                                                   


This is one of the big reason why people tend to get into fight with their partner, or friends get to misunderstandings...

Not understanding other perspective...

As I mention earlier, there are different perspectives in world and you should learn how to see the world by more than one self perspective...

In relation also, you should learn to get your friends or your partners or your parent's perspective to talk about things that how they react and most importantly why they are reacting like this....there must be a reason...

But, we are tend to explain just our perspective and think its right because we know how we see the world...but we don't try to think what and why other one is reacting in that manner...

What is their perspective....Try to see the situation not only with your eyes but also from other one's eyes to know what's the actual matter...and believe me its always have been a simple solution to end any big conflict...


SECOND is LACK OF COMMUNICATION...

                                                        


Not talking to each other can never be the solution in a relation...

Most of the times, people think that if we talk we will fight or it is not comfortable to talk about things which is roaming in my mind...

Remember this thing...

If you have a doubt about anything in a relation, if you have any problem or any confusion in any relation then just go and talk...SIMPLE

It is as simple as it sounds,,,just don't overthink and waste your time in building misunderstandings...just go and have a talk or deep conversation with them or you will end up on depressed, stressed, more confused and hating this type of relation...

It is simple don't think, just go and have a conversation on that topic with your parents or friends or partner...

AND if case is that when you talk, you get into a fight then go for a third reason of conflicts in relation...

THIRD is USE OF WORDS...

                                                                    


In any conversation, it is very important what type of words you are using to clarify yourself...we think that we are right so we can talk in anyway we want but that's not the thing... 

Even if you are 100% right, but don't know how to talk as how to use words...then you will end up having fight on WHAT ARE YOU SAYING??

If you want more clearance on this topic, you can read #wordsreallymaters part of this...to know the importance of words...

Till now(at age 20), I experienced this things and observed these key problems in any relation whether its friendship, relationship or with your parents,..

It is applicable to all...

  • Accept the other's PERSPECTIVE...

  • Have a GOOD TALK with them...

  • Use right choice of WORDS...

It is simple and use it in your way, whatever situation it is...

A good relation around you really affects your life in a long run...but a good support from every relation makes happy life...

Don't take things(small) seriously in relation...Don't judge and most important Don't expect much from others...

Giving FREEDOM is the secret of good relationships in world...